Ceremony Writing Service

Ceremony Writing

You’ve chosen someone who means the world to you to officiate your wedding. What an incredible honor for them and a beautiful way to make your day even more personal!

But, now you might be wondering...

How will they know what to say?

Will the ceremony actually sound like us?

Will they feel confident in front of everyone?

Will it all flow smoothly from start to finish?

If you’ve thought any of that, you’re not alone — and you’re in exactly the right place!

As a professional officiant and ceremony designer, I help couples create heartfelt, one-of-a-kind ceremonies that sound natural, engaging, and completely true to who you are.

Writing and performing a ceremony isn’t just about words on paper — it’s about creating a space for something amazing to happen; a moment that feels genuine, effortless, and unforgettable.

Every ceremony I write includes clear, step-by-step cues so your officiant knows exactly what to do and when. No guessing.

No awkward pauses. Just a beautiful, meaningful ceremony that flows.

Choose from:

The Classic Ceremony — simple, sweet, and timeless.
The Love Story Ceremony — a fully written, emotionally engaging ceremony that takes your guests through your love journey together.

No matter which you choose, your ceremony will feel intentional, seamless, and deeply you.

👉 Let’s make your ceremony everything you dreamed it would be.

Why Couples Work With Me

Professional Expertise

With over 10 years of experience writing wedding ceremonies full-time, I’ve helped countless couples create meaningful moments their guests still talk about.

Collaborative Process

We’ll work together to design a ceremony that feels like you; authentic, intentional, and filled with warmth.

Seamless Experience

From your first questionnaire to the final script, I’ll handle every detail so your officiant can confidently deliver a ceremony that flows beautifully, feels effortless and genuine.

How It Works

You share your story.
Through either the Classic or Love Story Questionnaire, you’ll tell me about your vibe, your connection, and what you envision for your ceremony.
I bring it to life.
I’ll create a written draft with easy-to-follow cues and directions for your officiant — so they know exactly how to lead the day.
You review and approve.
You’ll have full say over any edits — unlimited with the Love Story Ceremony or two rounds with the Classic option.
Your officiant gets the final script.
Once approved, I’ll send the completed ceremony (and optional audio version) to your officiant so they can practice confidently before your big day.

*Optional: Add a 60-minute officiant coaching session to make sure they’re ready to lead like a pro.

Choose From

Classic

$149

A timeless, simple ceremony for couples who want something meaningful and tailored to their vibe without all the fluff.

Access To The Classic Questionnaire
Ceremony Template Matching Your Style
With Officiant Cues
Your Choice Unity Ceremony
2 Script Revisions
Unlimited Email Support
Delivered PDF Ceremony Copy

Love Story

$299

An emotionally engaging, custom ceremony written from scratch that shares the couple's love journey up to now—so guests walk away saying, “That was so them.”

Access To The Love Story Questionnaire
Written-From-Scratch Ceremony With
Officiant Cues
Custom Unity Ceremony
Unlimited Script Revisions
Final Approval
Top Secret Ceremony Assignment
Unlimited Email & Text Support
Delivered PDF Ceremony Copy & Audio File

FAQ

What's the biggest difference between the Written Ceremony Options?

Our Award Winning Signature Love Story Ceremony option is completelty written from scratch, inspired by our couple's incredible journey to I Do. It's ideal for those interested in a meaningful, unforgettable ceremony experience they'll cherish forever.

Our Classic Ceremony option is based on a pre-written ceremony script tailored to our couple's preference for a modern or traditional theme and does NOT include story-telling elements. This ceremony is ideal for those that don't feel the need for customization, feeling a basic, no frills ceremony would be a better fit.

How can we be confident our officiant will know what to do during our ceremony? We want it to look as polished as possible.

Your ceremony will include clear cues and instructions so your officiant will know exactly when to ask your guests to rise, be seated, what to do before you're officially pronounced married, when to get out of the way for the ceremonial kiss and how to conduct a pre and post ceremony announcement.

How Long Will Our Ceremony Be?

Honestly? You set the vibe. Your ceremony can be as short or as detailed as you want.

It really depends on things like whether you’re sharing personal vows, adding a unity moment, or including a special reading.

That said, our Love Story Ceremonies average around 19–23 minutes, while the Classic averages 12–16 minutes; long enough to feel heartfelt, yet perfectly paced.

Do We Have to Be Local To Work With You?

Not at all! We work with couples no matter where they I Do and make sure their officiant's instructions and cues are compliant with marriage laws specific to the venue where the wedding will take place.

Is Coaching really necessary for our officiant? What is the cost?

Because your Officiant is legally responsible for your marriage, and because they’ve most likely never officiated a wedding before, 1-on1 coaching with Kristi is strongly encouraged as it will give them direction and help them avoid the most common mistakes most new officiants make. Coaching for your officiant is available for $149 per 60 minute session.

How Do We Get Started?

That's easy! Just complete the form below and we'll send a service agreement and invoice for your choice service. As soon as both the payment and service agreement are returned, I’ll send your ceremony questionnaire and we'll get started right away!

Ceremony Writing Service