PreMarital Counseling

You're getting married—heck yes! Cue the champagne, confetti, and all the dreamy future plans.

You’ve got BIG vibes for the life you’re building—date nights that never die, a deep unbreakable bond, and a love that lasts longer than your wedding playlist. But let’s keep it real—about half of marriages don’t go the distance.

Wait, what?! Yep.

Here’s the wild part: Almost every couple who ends up calling it quits? They say the same things—“We just couldn’t communicate,” “We grew apart,” “Money caused tension,” or the classic “We thought love would be enough.”

I get it—you’re thinking, “That won’t be us.” But guess what? So did they.

You’re probably nodding along right now thinking, “Yeah, but…”

  • We’ve been together forever—we know each other’s quirks, moods, and Netflix passwords by heart. No surprises here.

  • We already live together, so we’ve seen it all—the morning breath, the laundry battles, the “what do you want for dinner?” stand-offs. Marriage won’t change much… right?

  • Our love is solid. Like, ride-or-die, weather-any-storm kind of love. So what’s left to figure out?

    Spoiler alert: A whole lot more than you think.

HERE'S THE REAL TALK...

It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together, how deep the love runs, or how synced your routines are—the stats don’t magically shift in your favor.

Why?

Because saying “I do” isn’t just a romantic moment—it’s a major relationship reset. That marriage license? It flips the script.

Once you’re officially hitched, you’ll face a whole new level of grown-up stuff—joint finances, future kiddos, legal ties, and pressures you haven’t even thought about yet. These are things only married couples face—and they hit different.

You’re not here to be another number. You know real love takes real effort, and you’re down to do the work before the wedding so your forever actually lasts.

You might not have a crystal ball, but there’s one thing you do know:

You want to kick off your marriage with every possible edge—emotionally, mentally, and practically.

YOU WANT:

  • A marriage built on more than just vibes and wishful thinking

  • To stop guessing what your partner needs—and start actually getting it right!

  • Deeper connection, not just cute couple pics

  • Love that doesn’t fizzle after the honeymoon phase

  • To be the couple that makes it—not just hopes to


    And that’s exactly what you’ll get when we team up for premarital counseling.

    Real tools. Real growth. Real love that lasts

Here's the thing...

Yeah, marriage is about two becoming one, but let’s not forget: you’re still two unique humans with totally different perspectives, backgrounds, and ways of seeing the world.


The real secret to a strong, lasting marriage? Learning to celebrate those differences instead of letting them pull you apart.

One of the biggest game-changers in our coaching sessions? Discovering your partner’s

communication style. Spoiler: It’s not the same as yours—and that’s where the magic (and the mess) usually begins.


Why does that matter?

Because you can talk all day long, but if neither of you feels heard or understood, you’re just making noise.


Most couples I work with say communication is their biggest struggle. And it usually comes down to this:

You’re both speaking your own language instead of learning each other’s.


The best part? In Premarital Counseling, you’ll finally crack the code—and start speaking your partner’s language like a pro.

Why PreMarital Counseling?

Because facts don’t lie—studies show that couples who do online premarital counseling or coaching boost their chances of a successful marriage by up to 30%.

That’s not just a small win...

that’s a game-changer.

Couples who invest in this kind of prep seriously lower their risk of divorce—and set themselves up for a stronger, more connected, actually fulfilling marriage compared to those who skip it.

This is your love story—why not give it every advantage?

You don’t need some generic relationship book or boring, one-size-fits-all video series telling you how marriage should work.

  • A proven strategy to master communication by unlocking the language your partner actually speaks—so you don’t end up building a wall that’s way harder (and way more painful) to break down later.

  • Clear, personalized action steps you can start using right now to grow closer, feel truly understood, and keep your connection strong through every season.

  • 1-on-1 support from your personal Premarital Coach (that’s me!)—walking with you every step of the way, cheering on your heart-centered relationship, no matter what life throws your way.

All of this—and so much more —is waiting for you inside my online Premarital Counseling program.

THROUGH COACHING YOU'LL:

  • Unpack the hidden expectations you’re both bringing into marriage—so nothing blindsides you down the road.

  • Learn how to speak your partner’s unique communication “language”—so you stop missing the mark and start connecting on a whole new level.

  • Ditch the guesswork and finally know what your partner truly needs to feel seen, loved, and secure—so you can build that deep, lasting intimacy you both crave.

  • Discover your partner’s emotional hot buttons—and the secret sauce to bringing up sensitive topics without it turning into World War 4.

What is Symbis?

My Premarital Counseling program is powered by the world-renowned SYMBIS® (Save Your Marriage Before It Starts) Personality Assessment—the go-to tool that’s helped millions of couples get clarity, confidence, and connection before falling into the habits that quietly wreck relationships.

You and your partner take the SYMBIS® Assessment separately—and then boom, your answers come together to create a personalized roadmap for your marriage. It’s like getting a sneak peek into what life will really look like after the “I Do’s.”


As your PreMarital Coach, I’ll guide you through the results, help you unpack your differences, and show you exactly how to use them as your secret weapon—not your struggle point.

Curious what it looks like? CLICK HERE to peek inside a sample SYMBIS Relationship Report and see the kind of insight that’s waiting for you.

What Couples are Saying...


“Even if you feel you know each other 100%, your marriage is your #1 investment. Finding a new way to communicate with your partner is so worth it!”

~Lauren and Nick


“At first we were extremely skeptical about the entire coaching process, but we really enjoyed the ease of conversation and dealt with issues we previously swept under the rug.”

— Ashley and Ian

Meet your Coach

Hi, I’m Kristi!

I’m a Certified Master Relationship Coach, and I help engaged couples like you get ready forreal married life—not just the wedding day.


I’ll give you the tools to communicate like pros, handle conflict without chaos, and build the kind of deep connection that keeps your marriage strong for the long haul.

How is My Program Different?

Other coaches offer SYMBIS-based premarital education—but here’s why working with

me hits different:


My program isn’t just based on the SYMBIS Assessment—it goes way beyond it. After working with tons of real couples, I’ve added extra tools, real-life resources, and practical strategies you won’t find anywhere else. You’ll be able to actually use what you learn right away.


And for couples who are juggling busy schedules or watching their budget? I’ve got you covered with

Fast Track—a streamlined version of the full program that still delivers major impact, minus the overwhelm. Check it out here.


“It was important for us to invest in our marriage. Kristi was great to work with through Coaching and it strengthened the foundation of our relationship.”

~ Stephanie and Tyler T.

What’s Included inside the Program:

  • Exclusive access to 2 SYMBIS Personality Assessments

  • A personalized 15-18 page Marriage Roadmap Report based on your combined answers

  • 6–8 private 1-on-1 sessions with me, Kristi—where we’ll dive deep into your results and your relationship

  • The award-winning SYMBIS companion book to guide you every step of the way

  • A customizable Financial Worksheet to ease money stress and align your goals

  • 2 Individual Personality Profiles with tailored tips to navigate your differences with confidence

  • Thoughtful, conversation-starting FUNsheet Homework to keep things real and engaging

  • A Completion Certificate to celebrate your journey

+ BONUS- A Post-Marriage Refresher Session to check in, reset, and keep your connection thriving long after “I Do”

Grow Your Relationship With Your Choice

Q. Where are coaching sessions held and how long do they last?

A. Understanding you’re busier than ever with everyday life in addition to wedding planning, I offer virtual appointments around your schedule. Each session lasts 60 minutes.

Q. How many sessions can we expect to have?

A. Our full Premarital Counseling Program includes 6-8 sessions. The number of sessions varies from couple to couple and is dependent upon how detailed your final report turns out to be. Our condensed Fast Track Version includes a total of 3 Sessions.

Q: What's the difference between your 3 and 6 session program other than the number of sessions?

A. Our Original 6 session option covers every area of your relationship as the 3 session option, aka Fast Track covers your choice of 2 specific areas where you want focus. Fast Track is designed for couples on a budget and for those with limited time for sessions. For complete details on Fast Track, click HERE.

Q. We would love to have you officiate our wedding. Do you have a package that includes both services?

A. Yes! Our Platinum officiant package includes both Officiant and PreMarital Coaching.

Q. We’re interested, but we’re already married. Can you still work with us?

A. Yes! When you complete the Assessment and check “married" as your status, your report will automatically update to SYMBIS+ which includes additional insight for married couples.

Q. How do we get started?

A. It’s easy! Click your choice program option button above to complete my contact form and I’ll be in touch with next steps.

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