Planning the wedding? Easy.

Building a marriage that thrives in real life? That’s where it gets real.

You're deep in wedding plans—color palettes, cake tastings, and Pinterest boards for days.

But, what about after the big day?

How do you handle money convos without side-eyeing each other at dinner?

How do you keep the spark lit when careers, bills, and laundry piles up?

How do you stay teammates—not just roommates—as life gets crazier?

This is where Marriage IRL comes in.

You know marriage takes work—but no one teaches you how to work smarter (not just harder).

Tired of vague advice like "marriage is hard" without the real strategies?

Want to crush disagreements without crushing each other?

Ready to build communication habits that actually last?

Want a marriage that’s strong, connected, and still exciting—even years in?

You’re not alone.

Most couples spend months planning the party and almost no time prepping for the life.

Marriage IRL flips the script—with an 8-week experience that gives you real-world skills, expert coaching, and legit connection-building tools for a marriage that’s solid, happy, and built for the long haul.

This isn’t some awkward lecture or therapy sesh.

It’s a relationship gym for couples ready to thrive together—messy life and all.

Inside Marriage IRL, You'll Learn How To:

✅ Create a personalized relationship game plan—so you’re aligned, supported, and stronger than ever.

✅ Master conflict like pros—no more blowups, silent treatments, or weird vibes.

✅ Understand each other’s love languages and needs—without guessing games.

✅ Keep the spark alive—even when your biggest date night decision is "Netflix or sleep."

✅ Build money habits that fuel your future—not stress it out.

✅ Tackle family, future goals, and real-life curveballs like a team.

This Works (When TikTok Advice Doesn’t)

Marriage IRL isn’t just vibes and advice you forget by next week. It’s real relationship science (shoutout Prepare-Enrich!) packed into action-driven sessions to help you build something amazing from day one.

Because marriage isn’t just about making it. It’s about making it awesome.

Why Marriage IRL Hits Different (When Random Advice Falls Flat)

Most couples just wing it after "I do"—and when real life throws curveballs, they’re left wondering where it all got sideways.

Marriage IRL is your shortcut to skipping years of trial-and-error.

No guesswork. No vague advice. Just real tools that actually work—right from the start.

This isn’t a vibe session or surface-level advice you forget by next week.

It’s grounded in real relationship science (shoutout to the Prepare-Enrich Assessment!) that helps you unlock your strengths, spot your growth areas, and build unshakable teamwork.

This 8-week experience is designed for modern couples who want to:

✅ Stay deeply connected—even when life gets messy and schedules get crazy.

✅ Tackle challenges as a team—without drama, shutdowns, or side-eye energy.

✅ Communicate in ways that actually pull you closer—not push you apart.

✅ Build a relationship that’s not just solid—but thriving, exciting, and built for the long haul.

Because **marriage isn’t just about "getting through it."It’s about growing through it** and investing in a love that evolves right along with you!

What our couples have to say...

We thought we were ready for marriage, but this program opened our eyes to things we had never even discussed. Kristi made it fun, easy to understand, and actually exciting to build a future together!

Alex & Sam

We used to avoid hard conversations. Now, we have tools that help us navigate everything as a team. This course should be required for every engaged couple!

Casey & Riley

The way Kristi teaches is so real and down-to-earth. We didn’t just learn—we actually had fun doing it! This program gave us confidence that we’re starting our marriage on the best foundation possible.

Taylor & Jordan

Meet Your Coach – Kristi Brooks-Olivo

Premarital Coach & Relationship Guide

Hey, I’m Kristi, and I’ve spent years helping couples not just plan a beautiful wedding ceremony, but actually

build a beautiful marriage!

As a Premarital and Relationship Coach, I’ve seen firsthand what makes relationships thrive—and where couples struggle the most. I created Marriage IRL

because I believe marriage should be exciting, → 8 weeks, and built to last—not just something you “figure out” along the way.

Think of me as your guide, your coach, and your biggest cheerleader as you and your partner prepare for your next (and most important) chapter together!

Real talk? Love alone isn’t enough. But with the right tools, your marriage can be the best thing you’ve ever built. And I’m here to show you how.

Inside Marriage IRL

8 Weekly Interactive Sessions

Engaging, real-life topics with practical strategies you can apply right away!

Relationship Building Exercises

Actionable, fun, and insightful exercises that get you talking, thinking and growing together.

Expert Coaching

No fluff, no outdated advice—just practical tools that actually work for modern relationships.

Private Community

Connect with other engaged couples, share experiences, and get support as you prepare for married life.

The Marriage IRL Experience Includes:

✅ 8 Weekly 60-Minute Interactive Sessions

– Real talk, real tools, and real-world convos to help you build a relationship that’s not just solid—but seriously unstoppable.

✅ 2 Prepare-Enrich Personality & Relationship Assessments

–A deep dive into your strengths, differences, and secret sauce as a team—so you know exactly how to thrive together.

✅ Action-Driven Playbooks and Exercises

– No fluff. Just practical tools, personalized insights, and easy-to-use strategies you’ll actually want to use IRL (not just in theory).

✅ 1 Complimentary Private Couples Session

– One-on-one coaching to break down your assessment results, celebrate your wins, and fine-tune your game plan for a next-level marriage.

Available Programs:

Spring/Summer- May 6-June 24, 2025

Fall- September 9-October 28, 2025

Winter- TBD

What You’ll Master Inside Marriage IRL:

📌 Week 1: Build Your Blueprint–

Get clear on your relationship dynamics, strengths, and what makes your connection unshakable.

📌 Week 2: Speak Their Language-

Master love languages and communication moves that keep you both feeling seen, heard, and hyped up.

📌 Week 3: Fight Smarter, Not Harder-

Learn how to navigate conflict like pros—no blowups, no shutdowns, just real teamwork.

📌 Week 4: Money Moves–

Build a money game plan that fuels your dreams (and stops financial stress before it starts).

📌 Week 5: Keep It Hot! –

Keep intimacy and connection thriving, even when life gets busy or messy.

📌 Week 6: Boundaries That Actually Work –

Handle family, in-laws, and life curveballs like a united front.

📌 Week 7:Dream, Plan, Crush Goals –

Set couple goals that excite you both—and build a future that feels aligned (and amazing).

📌 Week 8: Lock it in! –

Pull it all together with real-world strategies for a love that lasts—and keeps getting better.

What is Marriage IRL Exactly?

Marriage IRL is an 8-week virtual experience designed for engaged couples (or those seriously thinking about marriage) who want to build a relationship that actually lasts. You’ll join a group of other couples to learn, talk, and grow together—covering everything from communication and conflict to intimacy and finances. Think of it as marriage prep, but without the boring lectures.

Do we have to be engaged to join?

Nope! While Marriage IRL is designed for engaged couples, it’s also perfect for anyone in a serious relationship who wants to prepare for marriage the right way and avoid common struggles later. If you and your partner are talking about forever, you belong here.

When are the sessions, how are they held and what if we miss one?

You can choose from the following options:

Spring/Summer- May 6-June 24, 2025

Fall- September 9-October 28, 2025

Sessions are held virtually via Google Meet. Sessions will not be recorded, so if you miss one, you'll have the option to catch up in a future session should a space be available.

How much time to we need to commit?

Each session is about 60–90 minutes, plus a little time for optional relationship-building exercises during the week (because the real growth happens when you actually apply what you learn). But don’t worry—this isn’t homework; it’s fun, meaningful stuff that actually makes your relationship better.

Will we have one-on-one time with a coach, or is it all group-based?

Both! You’ll be part of a supportive group of couples, but you’ll also get one complimentary private session for personalized guidance. That way, if there’s something specific you and your partner want to work through, you’ll have a dedicated space for it.

How much is Marriage IRL? Are there payment plan options?

The full 8-week experience—including the Prepare-Enrich Assessment, expert-led sessions, educational materials, and a private couples session—is $1200 per couple. We understand this is quite an investment so we've made the following payment plans available for those unable to pay in full:

Split it up: Pay a deposit of $600 at registration and the rest one week before the first session.

Pay Later Option: Spread the cost into manageable installments with Paypal's Pay Later Program. Click HERE for more details.

Limited Spots Available – Reserve Yours Now!

Enrollment is limited to 6 couples to ensure a personalized experience—so don’t wait!

ENROLL TODAY FOR ONLY $1200 PER COUPLE!

Payment Plans Available

Lock in your spot for Marriage IRL by filling out the form below. Pick your session, complete your registration, and get ready for 8 weeks of game-changing relationship growth!

616.403.7560

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