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4 Ways to Make Your Ceremony All About YOU!

January 10, 20252 min read

Imagine This

Picture Emma and Jake, total outdoor lovers, swapping the traditional unity candle for something way more them. They poured sand from their favorite national parks into a keepsake jar, tying their ceremony to the adventures they love. Their vows? Full of heart, referencing sunsets on mountain trails and inside jokes from their hikes. The aisle? Decked out with lush greenery to match their outdoor vibe. Guests walked away saying, “That was so them,” and isn’t that the ultimate goal?


The Rundown

Your wedding should feel like your story, not just another Pinterest board. Personalizing your ceremony is more than just trendy—it’s unforgettable. The secret? Weaving in details that showcase what makes your love unique.

Ideas to Make It Yours:

  • Themes: Beach lovers? Movie buffs? Jet setters? Let it show!

  • Custom Vows: Keep it real. Share the quirks and moments that make your love one of a kind.

  • Unity Rituals: Skip the norm—plant a tree, blend coffee beans, or even do something wild like a champagne tower.

  • Interactive Fun: Let guests join in! Think ring blessings or singing along to your favorite tune.

Even celebs like Sophie Turner and Joe Jonas ditched tradition, eloping in a fun and spontaneous Las Vegas ceremony that reflected their playful, carefree vibe.

Your ceremony is the heartbeat of your wedding day—why not let it dance to your own rhythm?


How It Works

A personalized ceremony hits differently. It’s not just about the pretty moments; it’s about connection. Your guests feel the magic when they see your story in every detail. It’s intimate, real, and creates the kind of memories you’ll treasure forever.


How to Make It Happen

  1. Pick a Theme: Love coffee? Travel? Taco Tuesdays? Make it the star.

  2. Get Specific: Include your quirks and inside jokes in your vows.

  3. Start Something New: Invent a unity ritual that’s all yours.

  4. Ditch the Script: Work with your officiant to create a vibe that feels natural and totally you.


The Takeaway

Your ceremony shouldn’t feel like a boring obligation. It’s the moment you get to celebrate your love in a way that’s unapologetically you. Toss the cookie-cutter vibes and create something magical that’s straight out of your love story.

Whether you work with me as your wedding ceremony writer or wedding officiant, together, let's make your ceremony legendary. 💕

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Kristi Brooks

Meet Kristi, the heart and soul behind Brooks Wedding Ceremonies—your go-to officiant and premarital coach for Michigan and destination weddings. A total love story enthusiast, Kristi creates ceremonies that hit you right in the feels—personalized, unforgettable, and full of those “OMG, this is perfect” moments. Her chill, caring vibe makes couples feel instantly at ease, turning your “I do” into a once-in-a-lifetime experience you’ll never forget. When she’s not busy making wedding dreams come true, you can find Kristi planning epic getaways as a travel agent, exploring new spots, or hanging out with her rescue pups, her partner JR, and her squad of seven awesome grandkids.

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